So curious are the dynamics between these two that I sometimes –though not often — consider myself the Have and the other guy the Have Not.
Why? Because all he seems to have is the Have itself and nothing more. I may Not Have right now, but that situation could change given the proper path followed.
Once I Have there is absolutely no need for the other guy who Has. He, on the other hand, will still Have but won’t own the ability to do anything on his own without using his Have.
And as I’m quickly learning Have can only take one so far. You have to Have Not as well.